{"id":3520,"date":"2018-06-14T07:31:37","date_gmt":"2018-06-14T05:31:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/?p=3520"},"modified":"2018-06-14T07:31:37","modified_gmt":"2018-06-14T05:31:37","slug":"8-lectii-pe-care-le-am-invatat-de-cand-am-blog-si-sunt-mama-pentru-doi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/2018\/06\/14\/8-lectii-pe-care-le-am-invatat-de-cand-am-blog-si-sunt-mama-pentru-doi\/","title":{"rendered":"8 lectii pe care le-am invatat de cand am blog si sunt &#8222;mama pentru doi&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Luna aceasta blogul meu a implinit un an, timp in care <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/2017\/09\/22\/prima-zi-cu-bebe-doi-acasa-si-reactia-lui-andrei-la-sosirea-lui-edy\/\">bebelusul meu s-a nascut si a crescut<\/a> sub \u201cprivirile voastre\u201d. Iar Andrei a trecut de la grupa mijlocie la cea mare. Va dati seama ca din toamna viitoare o sa va vorbesc in calitate de mamica de <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/2018\/03\/17\/top-cele-mai-bune-scoli-din-militari-si-chiajna\/\">scolar<\/a>? Oh My God! \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p>V-am povestit cum a reactionat lumea cand <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/2017\/05\/30\/sanatos-sa-fie\/\">am aflat ca o sa am INCA un baiat<\/a>, cum a fost la <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/2017\/09\/14\/nasterea-la-regina-maria\/\">nastere<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/2017\/09\/14\/nasterea-la-regina-maria\/\">ce am patit in timpul anesteziei<\/a>, ce probleme am avut cu <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/2017\/11\/20\/alaptarea-si-problemele-despre-care-nu-m-a-avertizat-nimeni-5-situatii-cu-care-m-am-confruntat-in-alaptat\/\">alaptatul<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/2018\/05\/10\/somnul-bebelusului-la-8-luni\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">somnul bebelusului<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/2018\/01\/22\/ajutor-bebe-nu-vrea-lapte-praf\/\">intarcarea<\/a>. Dar le-am depasit pe toate si iata ca in curand bebe va spune primele cuvinte si va merge singur.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" style=\"background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 658px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);\" data-instgrm-captioned=\"\" data-instgrm-permalink=\"http:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/Bj1-Y-CFfo_\/\" data-instgrm-version=\"8\">\n<div style=\"padding: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"background: #F8F8F8; line-height: 0; margin-top: 40px; padding: 50.0% 0; text-align: center; width: 100%;\">\n<div style=\"background: url(data:image\/png; base64,ivborw0kggoaaaansuheugaaacwaaaascamaaaapwqozaaaabgdbtueaalgpc\/xhbqaaaafzukdcak7ohokaaaamuexurczmzpf399fx1+bm5mzy9amaaadisurbvdjlvzxbesmgces5\/p8\/t9furvcrmu73jwlzosgsiizurcjo\/ad+eqjjb4hv8bft+idpqocx1wjosbfhh2xssxeiyn3uli\/6mnree07uiwjev8ueowds88ly97kqytlijkktuybbruayvh5wohixmpi5we58ek028czwyuqdlkpg1bkb4nnm+veanfhqn1k4+gpt6ugqcvu2h2ovuif\/gwufyy8owepdyzsa3avcqpvovvzzz2vtnn2wu8qzvjddeto90gsy9mvlqtgysy231mxry6i2ggqjrty0l8fxcxfcbbhwrsyyaaaaaelftksuqmcc); display: block; height: 44px; margin: 0 auto -44px; position: relative; top: -22px; width: 44px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p style=\"margin: 8px 0 0 0; padding: 0 4px;\"><a style=\"color: #000; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none; word-wrap: break-word;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/Bj1-Y-CFfo_\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Cei doi pitici: Edy si visinul pitic ? #sourcherrytree #baby #home #weekend<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;\">O postare distribuit\u0103 de <a style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.instagram.com\/mamapentrudoi\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> Doina Goanta<\/a> (@mamapentrudoi) pe <time style=\"font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px;\" datetime=\"2018-06-10T11:59:58+00:00\">Iun 10, 2018 at 4:59 PDT<\/time><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async defer src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>Va multumesc ca ati fost alaturi de mine, ca ati avut rabdare sa imi cititi gandurile, sperantele si frustrarile. Oricum, si eu am invatat cate ceva in timpul asta.<\/p>\n<p>Iata 8 lectii pe care le-am invatat de cand am blog si sunt \u201cmama pentru doi\u201d:<\/p>\n<h4><strong>1. Nu poti multumi pe toata lumea<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>Incerc sa nu supar pe nimeni, dar uneori chiar nu poti sa ii multumesti pe toti. Nu toti gandim la fel. Dupa ce am postat un material despre <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/2017\/07\/21\/co-sleepingul-pana-la-ce-varsta-e-ok-sa-dormi-cu-copilul-in-pat\/\">co-sleeping<\/a>, in care un psiholog isi exprima parerea legat de acest subiect, cateva mame s-au suparat rau pe mine, vezi Doamne ca traumatizez copiii cu asemenea pareri. Mi-au dat unlike. Aia e, viata merge mai departe. Mi s-a parut un pic nedrept, mi se pare ok sa poti asculta si parerea altuia, chiar daca nu esti de acord cu ea.<\/p>\n<p>Citeste si:<\/p>\n<p><strong><em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/2017\/07\/21\/co-sleepingul-pana-la-ce-varsta-e-ok-sa-dormi-cu-copilul-in-pat\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Co sleepingul. Pana la ce varsta e ok sa dormi cu copilul in pat<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/2017\/08\/13\/este-bine-sa-dormim-sau-nu-cu-bebelusul-nostru-un-material-de-diana-dumitriu-psiholog\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Este bine sa dormim sau nu cu bebelusul nostru?<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" style=\"background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 658px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);\" data-instgrm-captioned=\"\" data-instgrm-permalink=\"http:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/Bj9Q09DFFDR\/\" data-instgrm-version=\"8\">\n<div style=\"padding: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"background: #F8F8F8; line-height: 0; margin-top: 40px; padding: 62.5% 0; text-align: center; width: 100%;\">\n<div style=\"background: url(data:image\/png; base64,ivborw0kggoaaaansuheugaaacwaaaascamaaaapwqozaaaabgdbtueaalgpc\/xhbqaaaafzukdcak7ohokaaaamuexurczmzpf399fx1+bm5mzy9amaaadisurbvdjlvzxbesmgces5\/p8\/t9furvcrmu73jwlzosgsiizurcjo\/ad+eqjjb4hv8bft+idpqocx1wjosbfhh2xssxeiyn3uli\/6mnree07uiwjev8ueowds88ly97kqytlijkktuybbruayvh5wohixmpi5we58ek028czwyuqdlkpg1bkb4nnm+veanfhqn1k4+gpt6ugqcvu2h2ovuif\/gwufyy8owepdyzsa3avcqpvovvzzz2vtnn2wu8qzvjddeto90gsy9mvlqtgysy231mxry6i2ggqjrty0l8fxcxfcbbhwrsyyaaaaaelftksuqmcc); display: block; height: 44px; margin: 0 auto -44px; position: relative; top: -22px; width: 44px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p style=\"margin: 8px 0 0 0; padding: 0 4px;\"><a style=\"color: #000; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none; word-wrap: break-word;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/Bj9Q09DFFDR\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Me &amp; mini me ? #motherandson #family #love<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;\">O postare distribuit\u0103 de <a style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.instagram.com\/mamapentrudoi\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> Doina Goanta<\/a> (@mamapentrudoi) pe <time style=\"font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px;\" datetime=\"2018-06-13T07:55:45+00:00\">Iun 13, 2018 at 12:55 PDT<\/time><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async defer src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4><strong>2. O vorba buna iti poate ridica instant moralul<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>\u201cDoina, sa stii ca blogul tau imi da speranta\u201d, mi-a scris o colega mai demult. De cand m-am apucat sa scris, colegele mele au ramas insarcinate, unele <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/2017\/06\/27\/nasterea-la-stat-sau-la-privat-unde-primesti-cea-mai-buna-ingrijire\/\">au nascut<\/a>, unele urmeaza, altele sunt deja la al doilea copil. Cand au timp, mai citesc si ce scriu eu pe blog.<\/p>\n<p>E important sa stii ca nu e sfarsitul lumii daca copilul tau nu doarme, se trezeste de 10 ori pe noapte, se agita la san etc. Nu esti singura care trece prin asta si sa stii ca o sa supravietuiesti. Eu sunt sincera si, mai mult, imi place sa ma plang. Asa ca timp de un an ati putut citi toate \u201cdramele\u201d prin care am trecut: de la problemele in alaptat, la somnul mega-intrerupt al bebelusului, problema cu <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/2017\/07\/09\/displazia-abdominala-cum-m-am-trezit-dupa-nastere-intr-un-alt-corp\/\">diastaza<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/2018\/02\/06\/momentul-adevarului-cat-m-ingrasat-sarcina\/\">kilogramele cu care am ramas dupa nastere<\/a>. Orice comentariu constructiv pe care il primesc pe blog imi insenineaza ziua si imi da putere sa scriu mai departe, chiar daca am un milion de alte lucruri de facut.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" style=\"background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 658px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);\" data-instgrm-captioned=\"\" data-instgrm-permalink=\"http:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/BjthdgzFvD8\/\" data-instgrm-version=\"8\">\n<div style=\"padding: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"background: #F8F8F8; line-height: 0; margin-top: 40px; padding: 28.14814814814815% 0; text-align: center; width: 100%;\">\n<div style=\"background: url(data:image\/png; base64,ivborw0kggoaaaansuheugaaacwaaaascamaaaapwqozaaaabgdbtueaalgpc\/xhbqaaaafzukdcak7ohokaaaamuexurczmzpf399fx1+bm5mzy9amaaadisurbvdjlvzxbesmgces5\/p8\/t9furvcrmu73jwlzosgsiizurcjo\/ad+eqjjb4hv8bft+idpqocx1wjosbfhh2xssxeiyn3uli\/6mnree07uiwjev8ueowds88ly97kqytlijkktuybbruayvh5wohixmpi5we58ek028czwyuqdlkpg1bkb4nnm+veanfhqn1k4+gpt6ugqcvu2h2ovuif\/gwufyy8owepdyzsa3avcqpvovvzzz2vtnn2wu8qzvjddeto90gsy9mvlqtgysy231mxry6i2ggqjrty0l8fxcxfcbbhwrsyyaaaaaelftksuqmcc); display: block; height: 44px; margin: 0 auto -44px; position: relative; top: -22px; width: 44px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p style=\"margin: 8px 0 0 0; padding: 0 4px;\"><a style=\"color: #000; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none; word-wrap: break-word;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/BjthdgzFvD8\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Eu si o tentativa de schelet ? #fun #funwithkids #party #facepaint<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;\">O postare distribuit\u0103 de <a style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.instagram.com\/mamapentrudoi\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> Doina Goanta<\/a> (@mamapentrudoi) pe <time style=\"font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px;\" datetime=\"2018-06-07T05:13:15+00:00\">Iun 6, 2018 at 10:13 PDT<\/time><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async defer src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<h4><strong>3. Copiii sunt diferiti, ar fi mai bine <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/2018\/04\/02\/comparatia-intre-copii-un-obicei-care-nu-face-bine-nici-parintilor-nici-celor-mici\/\">sa nu ii mai comparam toata ziua intre ei<\/a><\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>V-am mai spus, eu cad adesea in capcana asta. Il compar pe cel mic cu cel mare, ii compar cu alti copii, ii analizez in functie de graficele de crestere. Nu fac decat sa ma stresez. Pana la urma, fiecare atinge <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/2017\/11\/15\/achizitiile-bebelusului-stresul-oricarui-parinte-care-sunt-cele-mai-importante-milestones-in-functie-de-varsta\/\">milestone<\/a>-urile in ritmul lui. La ce ma ajuta sa imi fac griji? Vai, nu s-a rostogolit la timp! Vaaai, nu are inca dinti la 8 luni! Ei, uite ca acum la 9 luni <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/2018\/06\/08\/cuuum-are-aproape-9-luni-si-niciun-dinte-cand-i-a-dat-primul-dintisor-lui-bebe-edy\/\">are deja doi dintisori<\/a> si cred ca intr-o luna va face primii pasi singur, la cat de bine merge bebe acum sustinut.<\/p>\n<h4><strong>4. Subiectele despre <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/2018\/01\/02\/5-subiecte-controversate-alaptarea-vaccinarea-alimentatia-medicamente\/\">vaccinare<\/a>, alaptat, l<a href=\"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/2018\/01\/22\/ajutor-bebe-nu-vrea-lapte-praf\/\">apte praf,<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/2018\/03\/12\/diversificarea-la-inceput-de-primavara-fructele-ready-to-eat-si-alte-probleme-existentiale\/\">diversificare<\/a>, alimentatie, tratamente, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/2017\/11\/01\/greseli-pe-care-le-am-facut-cu-primul-copil-si-pe-care-nu-as-vrea-sa-le-mai-repet-cu-al-doilea\/\">medicamente<\/a> sunt ca o bomba gata sa explodeze<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>V-am mai spus ca <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/2018\/01\/02\/5-subiecte-controversate-alaptarea-vaccinarea-alimentatia-medicamente\/\">am cateva subiecte pe care evit sa le discut<\/a>, de exemplu, cu mamicile in parc. Nu am chef sa fiu judecata, certata, nu am chef sa primesc sfaturi pe care nu le doresc. Eu fac cum cred ca e mai bine pentru mine, am cele mai bune intentii. Ca nu zice asa la manual, nah, nu suntem toti perfecti. Nu am alaptat doi ani nici prima oara, nici acum, nu pot sa tai de tot zaharul din alimentatie, bebe bea <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/2018\/01\/22\/ajutor-bebe-nu-vrea-lapte-praf\/\">lapte praf<\/a> (cu greu, ca nu ii place in mod deosebit). Pe blog am fost sincera si am vorbit despre toate problemele cu care m-am confruntat &#8211; cu <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/2017\/09\/15\/presiunea-de-a-alapta-cu-orice-pret-cum-sa-nu-te-simti-vinovata-daca-nu-iti-iese-ca-la-carte\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">alaptatul<\/a>, cu (ne)<a href=\"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/2018\/04\/10\/bebelusul-care-nu-accepta-biberonul-cum-ii-dau-laptele-praf\/\">acceptarea biberonului<\/a>\/laptelui praf. Din fericire, nu m-a \u201ccertat\u201d nimeni \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<h4><strong>5. Este minunat sa ai un \u201cloc\u201d unde sa te descarci<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>Incerc sa evit sa ma mai plang de fata cu persoanele cunoscute, ca sa nu le stresez prea tare cu problemele mele. Asa ca blogul a devenit si locul unde ma descarc cand simt ca nu mai pot: ca <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/2018\/06\/11\/mama-pentru-doi-si-mormanele-de-vase-care-se-strang-dupa-fiecare-masa-in-patru\/\">am prea multe vase de spalat<\/a> si nu mai suport, ca bebe nu doarme noaptea si sunt praf de somn, ca am <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/2018\/05\/28\/exercitii-pentru-diastaza-abdominala-miscarile-care-sper-sa-imi-salveze-abdomenul\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">o gaura intre muschii abdominali si un colacel enervant<\/a>, ca nu am dat jos toate kilogramele acumulate in sarcina.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" style=\"background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 658px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);\" data-instgrm-captioned=\"\" data-instgrm-permalink=\"http:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/BhgLokDlSgp\/\" data-instgrm-version=\"8\">\n<div style=\"padding: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"background: #F8F8F8; line-height: 0; margin-top: 40px; padding: 62.5% 0; text-align: center; width: 100%;\">\n<div style=\"background: url(data:image\/png; base64,ivborw0kggoaaaansuheugaaacwaaaascamaaaapwqozaaaabgdbtueaalgpc\/xhbqaaaafzukdcak7ohokaaaamuexurczmzpf399fx1+bm5mzy9amaaadisurbvdjlvzxbesmgces5\/p8\/t9furvcrmu73jwlzosgsiizurcjo\/ad+eqjjb4hv8bft+idpqocx1wjosbfhh2xssxeiyn3uli\/6mnree07uiwjev8ueowds88ly97kqytlijkktuybbruayvh5wohixmpi5we58ek028czwyuqdlkpg1bkb4nnm+veanfhqn1k4+gpt6ugqcvu2h2ovuif\/gwufyy8owepdyzsa3avcqpvovvzzz2vtnn2wu8qzvjddeto90gsy9mvlqtgysy231mxry6i2ggqjrty0l8fxcxfcbbhwrsyyaaaaaelftksuqmcc); display: block; height: 44px; margin: 0 auto -44px; position: relative; top: -22px; width: 44px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p style=\"margin: 8px 0 0 0; padding: 0 4px;\"><a style=\"color: #000; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none; word-wrap: break-word;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/BhgLokDlSgp\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Pure love \u2764\u2764\u2764 #motherandson #love #baby<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;\">O postare distribuit\u0103 de <a style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.instagram.com\/mamapentrudoi\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> Doina Goanta<\/a> (@mamapentrudoi) pe <time style=\"font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px;\" datetime=\"2018-04-13T07:49:36+00:00\">Apr 13, 2018 at 12:49 PDT<\/time><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async defer src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<h4><strong>6. Mamele sunt eroine oricum, indiferent de cate feluri de mancare fac sau cat de ordine e la ele in casa<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>Nu-I usor sa ai grija de un copil, doi, trei\u2026 asa ca pentru mine orice <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/2017\/11\/23\/mama-eroina-vs-mama-lenesa-tu-care-esti\/\">mama este eroina<\/a>. Pe primul loc e fericirea copiilor, abia apoi spalatul vaselor, datul cu aspiratorul si gatitul.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" style=\"background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 658px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);\" data-instgrm-captioned=\"\" data-instgrm-permalink=\"http:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/BiRtMWDlDS-\/\" data-instgrm-version=\"8\">\n<div style=\"padding: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"background: #F8F8F8; line-height: 0; margin-top: 40px; padding: 28.14814814814815% 0; text-align: center; width: 100%;\">\n<div style=\"background: url(data:image\/png; base64,ivborw0kggoaaaansuheugaaacwaaaascamaaaapwqozaaaabgdbtueaalgpc\/xhbqaaaafzukdcak7ohokaaaamuexurczmzpf399fx1+bm5mzy9amaaadisurbvdjlvzxbesmgces5\/p8\/t9furvcrmu73jwlzosgsiizurcjo\/ad+eqjjb4hv8bft+idpqocx1wjosbfhh2xssxeiyn3uli\/6mnree07uiwjev8ueowds88ly97kqytlijkktuybbruayvh5wohixmpi5we58ek028czwyuqdlkpg1bkb4nnm+veanfhqn1k4+gpt6ugqcvu2h2ovuif\/gwufyy8owepdyzsa3avcqpvovvzzz2vtnn2wu8qzvjddeto90gsy9mvlqtgysy231mxry6i2ggqjrty0l8fxcxfcbbhwrsyyaaaaaelftksuqmcc); display: block; height: 44px; margin: 0 auto -44px; position: relative; top: -22px; width: 44px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p style=\"margin: 8px 0 0 0; padding: 0 4px;\"><a style=\"color: #000; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none; word-wrap: break-word;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/BiRtMWDlDS-\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Baby fun ? #home #baby #play<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;\">O postare distribuit\u0103 de <a style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.instagram.com\/mamapentrudoi\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> Doina Goanta<\/a> (@mamapentrudoi) pe <time style=\"font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px;\" datetime=\"2018-05-02T13:25:38+00:00\">Mai 2, 2018 at 6:25 PDT<\/time><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async defer src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4><strong>7. Lucrurile nu sunt intotdeauna asa cum par\u2026 pe Facebook, de exemplu<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>Eu sunt mai naiva uneori. Mai credula. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/2018\/06\/07\/comparatia-cu-alte-mame-un-motiv-de-intristare-si-frustrare\/\">Am marturisit deja ca eu ce vad pe Facebook iau \u201cde bun<\/a>\u201d: acolo oamenii sunt mereu fericiti, in vacanta, la terasa, la piscina, rad cu gura pana la urechi, copiii sunt cuminti, bine imbracati, veseli. Nimeni n-are nicio grija. Pe Facebook viata e perfecta. La fel cum e \u201cperfecta\u201d si a unor mamici care omit sa vorbeasca despre partile negative si scot in evidenta numai lucrurile pozitive. O sa incerc sa filtrez un pic mai mult informatiile pe care le primesc ca sa nu mai greu ca numai eu sunt \u201coropsita sortii\u201d \ud83d\ude42 Da, da, mie imi place dramatismul \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<h4><strong>8. E total diferit sa fii mama pentru doi decat pentru un singur copil<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/2017\/08\/23\/intrebarea-care-macina-multe-mamici-ne-oprim-la-unul-sau-mai-facem-un-copil\/\">Mai multe mamici au spus ca e minunat sa ai mai multi copii<\/a>. Minunat, dar si mai greu. Cel putin in primul an. Totusi, din punctul meu de vedere partea cea mai grea a trecut. Cel mai dificil mi se pare cand e mic, mic. Acum am un mic \u201cumblacios\u201d, care exploreaza toata casa tinut de manuta, in cautare de noi aventuri.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Luna aceasta blogul meu a implinit un an, timp in care bebelusul meu s-a nascut si a crescut sub \u201cprivirile voastre\u201d. Iar Andrei a trecut de la grupa mijlocie la cea mare. Va dati seama ca din toamna viitoare o sa va vorbesc in calitate de mamica de scolar? 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