{"id":5679,"date":"2019-03-05T13:06:28","date_gmt":"2019-03-05T11:06:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/?p=5679"},"modified":"2019-03-06T15:35:14","modified_gmt":"2019-03-06T13:35:14","slug":"cu-bebelus-la-peste-35-de-ani-o-fi-bine-o-fi-rau","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/2019\/03\/05\/cu-bebelus-la-peste-35-de-ani-o-fi-bine-o-fi-rau\/","title":{"rendered":"Cu bebelus la peste 35 de ani. O fi bine, o fi rau?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Din ce in ce mai multe femei amana varsta la care devin mame. Motivele \u2013 multiple, dar in special cariera, dorinta de a calatori, siguranta relatiei, situatia financiara. In grupul meu de prietene, majoritatea au nascut pentru prima oara la peste 30 de ani. Al doilea copil a aparut cam in jur de 34 \/36 de ani. Poate mai tarziu chiar.<\/p>\n<h4><strong>Cu bebelus la peste 35 de ani &#8211;\u00a0 mai greu ca la 25?<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>In ceea ce ma priveste pe mine, v-am mai spus: Andrei a venit pe lume cand aveam 31 de ani, iar Edy 35.\u00a0 Acum, la un an jumate de atunci, iata-ma mama de bebelus. Sau, mai corect, de toddler. Din nou. O fi bine? O fi rau? Nici eu nu stiu ce sa mai cred. Nu vreau sa creada colegii copiilor, peste cativa ani, ca i-a adus bunica la scoala \ud83d\ude42 Sper ca nu va fi cazul :))<\/p>\n<p>CITESTE SI:\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/2017\/07\/25\/mama-la-30-plus-avantaje-si-dezavantaje\/\">Mama la 30 plus. Avantaje si dezavantaje<\/a><\/p>\n<p>De multe ori ma gandesc ca era ideal ca <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/5 motive pentru care e bine sa fie o diferenta de varsta mai mare intre frati\">diferenta dintre ei sa fie mai mica,<\/a><\/strong> iar eu\u2026 un pic mai tanara \ud83d\ude42 Sa stiti ca mie mi se pare diferenta se simte. Parca altfel eram acum 4 ani. Dar poate si pentru ca e mai greu cand sunt doi copii. Te solicita non stop, aproape ca nu exista momente de respiro. Parca sunt mereu epuizata.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" style=\"background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);\" data-instgrm-captioned=\"\" data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/BnL0RGBhk_z\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_medium=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"12\">\n<div style=\"padding: 16px;\">\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 19% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"padding-top: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;\">Vezi aceast\u0103 postare pe Instagram<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 12.5% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; margin-bottom: 14px; align-items: center;\">\n<div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(0px) translateY(7px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; height: 12.5px; transform: rotate(-45deg) translateX(3px) translateY(1px); width: 12.5px; flex-grow: 0; margin-right: 14px; margin-left: 2px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(9px) translateY(-18px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 20px; width: 20px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 2px solid transparent; border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4; border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; transform: translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: auto;\">\n<div style=\"width: 0px; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-right: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(16px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 8px 0 0 0; padding: 0 4px;\"><a style=\"color: #000; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none; word-wrap: break-word;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/BnL0RGBhk_z\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_medium=loading\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">In excursie \u263a #roadtrip #sinaia #castelulpeles #beautifulromania<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;\">O postare distribuit\u0103 de <a style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/mamapentrudoi.ro\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_medium=loading\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> Doina Goanta<\/a> (@mamapentrudoi.ro) pe <time style=\"font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px;\" datetime=\"2018-09-01T13:08:59+00:00\">Sep 1, 2018 at 6:08 PDT<\/time><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>Exceptie de la regula de 30\/ 35 plus fac colegele mele de la birou, fete tinere si hotarate. Copilaresc alaturi de copiii lor. Mara, cunoscuta si ca <a href=\"http:\/\/www.youngmom.ro\">Youngmom<\/a>, are doi copii cam de varsta alor mei (6 ani si aproape 2 ani), dar este cu vreo noua ani mai tanara ca mine. Mereu o confunda lumea cu sora lor \ud83d\ude42\u00a0 Imi place de ea ca este relaxata, nu se streseaza atat de tare, nu isi bate capul cu toate \u201csfaturile\u201d necerute de pe internet. Ca o fi de la varsta sau de la firea ei, asta nu mai stiu \ud83d\ude42 (Eu m-am si nascut stresata)<\/p>\n<p>Citeste si:\u00a0<strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/2018\/04\/29\/50-is-the-new-30-mame-la-50-de-ani-noua-moda-printre-vedete\/\">50 is the new\u2026 30? Mame la 50 de ani, noua moda printre vedete<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Si mai sunt inca doua fete la birou, care au devenit mamici in jur de 25-28 de ani. In rest, \u00a030 plus.<\/p>\n<p>Acum, cred ca mai depinde foarte mult si de felul in care vede fiecare lucrurile. Am o prietena de varsta mea care se tot mandrea ca \u201ceste mamica tanara\u201d: a nascut primul copil la 31 de ani \ud83d\ude42 Nah, daca ea e mamica tanara, atunci Young Mom cum mai e? :))<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Vestea buna e ca nu ma simt deloc \u201cbatrana\u201d, ca sa zic asa. Ba chiar astept uneori sa imi mai vina mintea la cap. E grea viata de adult responsabil, e grea viata cu copii. Cateodata am numai prostioare in cap, visez efectiv la cai verzi pe pereti, cand eu am doi copii de crescut acasa. Prietenii rad mereu de mine ca imi plac melodiile lui Smiley :)) Mie si fetitelor de scoala generala. Aia e \ud83d\ude42 O sa ascult impreuna cu copiii.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" style=\"background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);\" data-instgrm-captioned=\"\" data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/Bq4AcRPFH-E\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_medium=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"12\">\n<div style=\"padding: 16px;\">\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 19% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"padding-top: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;\">Vezi aceast\u0103 postare pe Instagram<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 12.5% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; margin-bottom: 14px; align-items: center;\">\n<div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(0px) translateY(7px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; height: 12.5px; transform: rotate(-45deg) translateX(3px) translateY(1px); width: 12.5px; flex-grow: 0; margin-right: 14px; margin-left: 2px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(9px) translateY(-18px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 20px; width: 20px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 2px solid transparent; border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4; border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; transform: translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: auto;\">\n<div style=\"width: 0px; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-right: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(16px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 8px 0 0 0; padding: 0 4px;\"><a style=\"color: #000; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none; word-wrap: break-word;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/Bq4AcRPFH-E\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_medium=loading\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Mihai Petre photobombing neintentionat ? #party #1decembrie #smiley #protv<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;\">O postare distribuit\u0103 de <a style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/mamapentrudoi.ro\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_medium=loading\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> Doina Goanta<\/a> (@mamapentrudoi.ro) pe <time style=\"font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px;\" datetime=\"2018-12-02T06:36:08+00:00\">Dec 1, 2018 at 10:36 PST<\/time><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>Deci da, sunt mama cu bebelus la 36 de ani, dar mintea mea a ramas pe undeva pe la 20-si\u2026 Sa vedem cu corpul cum facem :))<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" style=\"background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);\" data-instgrm-captioned=\"\" data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/BqAE9Y9FS0d\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_medium=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"12\">\n<div style=\"padding: 16px;\">\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 19% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"padding-top: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;\">Vezi aceast\u0103 postare pe Instagram<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 12.5% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; margin-bottom: 14px; align-items: center;\">\n<div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(0px) translateY(7px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; height: 12.5px; transform: rotate(-45deg) translateX(3px) translateY(1px); width: 12.5px; flex-grow: 0; margin-right: 14px; margin-left: 2px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(9px) translateY(-18px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 20px; width: 20px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 2px solid transparent; border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4; border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; transform: translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: auto;\">\n<div style=\"width: 0px; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-right: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(16px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 8px 0 0 0; padding: 0 4px;\"><a style=\"color: #000; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none; word-wrap: break-word;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/BqAE9Y9FS0d\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_medium=loading\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Cand dai in mintea copiilor ? #childish #fun #perfectautumn #sunnyday #sunnynovember<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;\">O postare distribuit\u0103 de <a style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/mamapentrudoi.ro\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_medium=loading\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> Doina Goanta<\/a> (@mamapentrudoi.ro) pe <time style=\"font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px;\" datetime=\"2018-11-10T13:18:08+00:00\">Nov 10, 2018 at 5:18 PST<\/time><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Din ce in ce mai multe femei amana varsta la care devin mame. Motivele \u2013 multiple, dar in special cariera, dorinta de a calatori, siguranta relatiei, situatia financiara. In grupul meu de prietene, majoritatea au nascut pentru prima oara la peste 30 de ani. Al doilea copil a aparut cam in jur de 34 \/36 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5681,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[529],"tags":[23,230,3063],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5679"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5679"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5679\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5685,"href":"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5679\/revisions\/5685"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5681"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5679"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5679"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5679"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}