{"id":6681,"date":"2019-06-11T05:51:29","date_gmt":"2019-06-11T03:51:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/?p=6681"},"modified":"2019-06-11T05:53:01","modified_gmt":"2019-06-11T03:53:01","slug":"lucruri-care-imi-trec-prin-cap-cu-o-luna-inainte-sa-ma-intorc-la-job","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.mamapentrudoi.ro\/index.php\/2019\/06\/11\/lucruri-care-imi-trec-prin-cap-cu-o-luna-inainte-sa-ma-intorc-la-job\/","title":{"rendered":"Ganduri care imi trec prin cap cu o luna inainte sa ma intorc la job"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Mai am mai putin de o luna pana cand revin la job si am inceput sa am \u201ccold feet\u201d. Exista o vreme in care de abia asteptam momentul asta, nu mai suportam sa stau acasa, ma simteam captiva, plictisita, frustrata, enervata. Voiam sa evadez, sa ma duc intr-un loc in care sa uit un pic de griji. Multele mele griji zilnice. Iata ca a venit si momentul ala. Concediul de crestere a copilului e la sfarsit, iar eu, dupa un an si 10 luni de stat acasa, ma simt un pic rupta de realitate. Si un pic chiar panicata&#8230; Oare o sa fac fata? Ce vor face copiii fara mine? Ce voi face eu fara ei? Cand ne vom mai vedea? Cum va fi la job, acolo unde nu cunosc aproape pe nimeni? Imi vajaie capul de atatea intrebari&#8230;<\/p>\n<h4><strong>Marea mea dilema: Cum o sa fac fata?<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>Nu se pune problema ca nu as vrea sa ma intorc sau ca as mai vrea sa stau acasa. Marea mea dilema este cum naiba o sa fac fata. Mai ales din toamna, cand incepe cel mare scoala. In caz ca nu stiati, eu imi fac probleme in avans \ud83d\ude42 Nu cum o sa fac fata la job, ci efectiv cum o sa reusesc sa ma impart intre copii si munca. Noi, parintii moderni, acesti parinti de weekend si dupa 7 seara. In septembrie, Andrei intra in clasa pregatitoare, apoi merge la after school. Care are program pana la sase. Joburile noastre \u201cau program\u201d pana la cel putin 6.30. Cum ajung sa il iau? Bebe va ramane cu buni pana la primavara, macar el va fi mai linistit.<\/p>\n<h4><strong>Cand o sa mai am timp de copii?<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>Daca pana acum ma plangeam ca stau poate prea mult cu copiii, de acum ma voi plange ca stau prea putin. Cu un job de la 10 la 6.30 nu ai timp de ei nici dimineata, nici seara. Totul la fi pe fuga. Nici nu vreau sa ma gandesc cum o sa facem cu temele. Noroc ca in clasa pregatitoare nu sunt \ud83d\ude42 Adio parc, adio plimbari\u2026Totul pe fast forward.<\/p>\n<h4><strong>Oare cum va fi la job dupa un an si zece luni de stat acasa?<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>Sincer, imi doresc sa imi reiau un pic din viata&#8230; Sa mai fac si altceva. Doar ca nu stiu exact cum va fi pentru mine aceasta revenire. In conditiile in care 90 la suta dintre colegi s-au schimbat, nu mai cunosc aproape pe nimeni. E ca si cum m-as duce intr-un loc nou\u2026 dar fara avantajele schimbarii jobului \ud83d\ude42 Cum o sa ma inteleg cu noii colegi? Cum voi fi perceputa dupa pauza asta lunga?<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" style=\"background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);\" data-instgrm-captioned=\"\" data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/ByU4il0Ix4_\/\" data-instgrm-version=\"12\">\n<div style=\"padding: 16px;\">\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 19% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"padding-top: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;\">Vezi aceast\u0103 postare pe Instagram<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 12.5% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; margin-bottom: 14px; align-items: center;\">\n<div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(0px) translateY(7px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; height: 12.5px; transform: rotate(-45deg) translateX(3px) translateY(1px); width: 12.5px; flex-grow: 0; margin-right: 14px; margin-left: 2px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(9px) translateY(-18px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 20px; width: 20px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 2px solid transparent; border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4; border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; transform: translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: auto;\">\n<div style=\"width: 0px; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-right: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(16px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 8px 0 0 0; padding: 0 4px;\"><a style=\"color: #000; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none; word-wrap: break-word;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/ByU4il0Ix4_\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Era cam frumos acolo \u2764 #lake #mountains #visitromania #rucar #satic<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;\">O postare distribuit\u0103 de <a style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/mamapentrudoi.ro\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> Doina Goanta<\/a> (@mamapentrudoi.ro) pe <time style=\"font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px;\" datetime=\"2019-06-05T11:24:49+00:00\">Iun 5, 2019 la 4:24 PDT<\/time><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ii va fi dor lui bebe de mine?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Bebe va fi pe maini bune si se va obisnui repede sa stea cu buni, mai ales ca il duc destul de des pe la ea. Da, mai plange dupa mine, tot cu mine isi doreste cel mai mult, dar e mic, uita :))\u00a0 Mi-aduc aminte bucuria de pe chipul lui Andrei cand veneam acasa de la serviciu. Imi dadeau lacrimile cand il vedeam cum face. Avea vreo doi ani si ceva si se lumina la fata cand intram pe usa. Ii vad acum pe amandoi cat de bucurosi sunt cand vine seara tati acasa. Ce sa mai, parintii sunt parinti \ud83d\ude42 Cu noi vor sa stea\u2026<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" style=\"background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);\" data-instgrm-captioned=\"\" data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/ByQNFxhI5yY\/\" data-instgrm-version=\"12\">\n<div style=\"padding: 16px;\">\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 19% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"padding-top: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;\">Vezi aceast\u0103 postare pe Instagram<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 12.5% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; margin-bottom: 14px; align-items: center;\">\n<div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(0px) translateY(7px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; height: 12.5px; transform: rotate(-45deg) translateX(3px) translateY(1px); width: 12.5px; flex-grow: 0; margin-right: 14px; margin-left: 2px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(9px) translateY(-18px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 20px; width: 20px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 2px solid transparent; border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4; border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; transform: translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: auto;\">\n<div style=\"width: 0px; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-right: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(16px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 8px 0 0 0; padding: 0 4px;\"><a style=\"color: #000; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none; word-wrap: break-word;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/ByQNFxhI5yY\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Goofing around ? #fun #funwithkids #vampirina #disneyjunior @disneyjunior<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;\">O postare distribuit\u0103 de <a style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/mamapentrudoi.ro\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> Doina Goanta<\/a> (@mamapentrudoi.ro) pe <time style=\"font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px;\" datetime=\"2019-06-03T15:48:11+00:00\">Iun 3, 2019 la 8:48 PDT<\/time><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<h4><strong>Sunt o mama rea ca nu mai stau acasa?<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>As vrea si n-as vrea sa stau. Acum vara e ok, ziua lunga, iesi afara, trece altfel timpul, dar iarna o iei razna. Si, la urma urmei, cat sa stai? Plus, dupa un an si 10 luni nu mai esti platita\u2026<\/p>\n<h4><strong>Andrei va sta prea mult timp plecat de acasa&#8230;<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>Scoala, after school&#8230; De la 7:30 la 18.30. Cam atat va fi plecat de acasa, in mod normal. Mi se pare un chin, sincer. Nu stiu exact cum va percepe el timpul asta. La after va merge in acelasi loc in care e acum la gradinita, deci probabil va fi bucuros sa isi intalneasca o parte din prieteni. Dar tot mi se pare ca sta mult acolo. De vreo doua ori pe saptamana il vor lua poate bunicii mai devreme. Sincer, inca nu stiu cum si cine il va lua la ora 18 de la after. Intrebari, dileme, probleme. Greu.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mai am mai putin de o luna pana cand revin la job si am inceput sa am \u201ccold feet\u201d. 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